I can't remember a time where I led a team but DIDN'T get myself LOST in the process. No, like literally LOST.
I've captained several running relays, with teams ranging from 4 to 12. Maps that spanned 200 miles, mountain ranges, and serious obstacles. I made sure everyone got through their section. But I constantly neglected mine.
I would look at my map literally WHILE I was running. It cost me minutes on races, manpower, and confidence in myself.
I thought putting everyone in front of me was the most important thing. But here's the thing: it just gave me the most satisfaction. It fed my ego.
Then I learned a valuable lesson. Putting the oxygen mask on yourself first is actually a superpower.
Pausing to study the course before continuing
Being the leader means knowing when it is time to care for yourself, your path, and your safety. It's not selfish. It's what makes you capable of actually leading.
If you're the type who puts everyone else first, ask yourself: is that service, or is it ego? Sometimes the bravest thing a captain can do is run the extra mile for herself before asking the team to follow.
You can't guide anyone through mountain ranges and serious obstacles if you're lost yourself. The team needs you at your best, not running in circles with a map you should have studied before the race started.
When is a time you got lost leading a team? What happened?